ahhhhh can everyone stop emo-ing? when no one emo-ed, i emo-ed, and now when i don't emo, everyone else emo's?!

this ain't really related, but i don't know i think i'm getting sick, like a fever or smth, since my mom has a fever and just now i got a headache?

you know when someone else around me is down, it feels as if its my fault for not being able to cheer them up. and the thing is, i only have one pair of hands, one pair of ears and one mouth. i can't cheer everyone up can i?and i think this by itself might just made me even more sick, cos it's kinda pressurising to know you have friends who could probably need you, and you can't know what to do about it